Day 38 Saturday April 16, 2011
WOW!!! What a fun day!!!! I got to visit with so many good friends and made some new friends... more so.... 1 WEEK LEFT!!!!! 7 days at MIDNIGHT!!!! WOOOO HOOOO!!!!!
Today was such a jam packed day full of fun. I really felt like myself. I felt like I was more in my skin and more me. Being back in Sacramento (although not the most liveliest of towns) feels so good. I feel so grounded here and so in tune. I mean I love SF and all it has to offer, but there is just something about Sacramento that just feels so relaxing and calm. It's a struggle because I am so used to fast paced living and always having an option and Sacramento doesn't always have that to offer....but it feels so good being here.
I was talking to a friend of mine who I was hanging out with and into the night and we talked about how Sacramento is the place you go when you want to settle down. As we talked about it, it made sense. Sacramento is kind of a gay settling ground. There are a lot of gay couples here....a lot...and established gay couples. Couples who have been together for years and years. It's not like San Francisco, where you're in 1 and out of 1 the next few months....now don't get me wrong, there are people here in SF that are in relationships but I have yet to meet a large number of couples who are in a closed relationship. Every couple I know is in an open relationship with the exception of a few... you know who you are and I do too... I don't think I need to say who you are...nor would I...that is not my place.....nor am I judging you. I think you are all in the right place for yourself and doing what works well for all of you.
I have never been in an open relationship....well, I have been involved in them, but I have never had any of mine be open...no, I have just had them cheating on me...in their mine it's open (without telling me), but in my mind they were never open...hahaha.. I am not sure I could ever be in an open relationship. This topic will be saved for the next blog that starts after this one ends.
So I am wondering, when I am ready for a relationship, do I come back here?
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